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Do you remember using a paper map to plan your vacation or to figure
out where you’re going when you’re lost? I can remember having to pull
over to the side of the road to break out the map and figure out where
we were at. You had to figure out how to read the legend, follow the
roads and intersections, and there was no zooming in to find the next
turn. After years of frustration the Global Positioning System came on
the scene and changed the world of travel as we knew it.
The GPS offered us something the map never could. It travels with us
everywhere we go, it talks to us, and tell us when to turn and what
the traffic looks like down the road. You can never get lost with a
GPS because it will show you where you’re at even if you made a wrong
turn along the way. A lot of people have even named their GPS. It’s
like a member of their family and they couldn’t survive travel without
Many of us were raised with paper map parents. They handed us a list
of rules and sent us on our way. They expected us to “just figure it
out.” However, contrary to this parenting model God has a different
parenting strategy.
4Fathers, don't exasperate your children by coming down hard on them.
Take them by the hand and lead them in the way of the Master.
Ephesians 4:6 (The Message)
Don’t get caught up on the “Fathers” part. This is a message we should
all strive toward accomplishing. God has called each of us to be a
part of the Global Parenting System. According to His word He wants us
to take our children by the hand and guide them. He wants us to travel
with them, talk to them; tell them when to turn and how to avoid
traffic and potential dangers. It’s not enough to just hand them an
instruction booklet and say good luck with life. Parents are called to
a lifelong commitment to loving and leading our children. We must get
involved and become parents we were called to be and our kids needs us
to be.
Monday, April 26, 2010
Tuesday, March 30, 2010
The Impact of Parents
The Partnership for a Drug-Free America reports that 1 in 5 high school students will abuse prescription drugs before they graduate.
The Partnership for a Drug-Free America also reports that, "Every day, 2,500 teens use a prescription drug to get high for the first time. 12 to 17 year olds abuse prescription drugs more than they abuse ecstasy, crack/cocaine, heroin and methamphetamine combined! Only 1 in 3 report learning about the risks of prescription drugs from their parents."
Are those reports discouraging? They should be. The deadliest form of substance absue is occurring in the very homes of teenagers.
However, there is HOPE. Over and over again, studies are showing that the most influential person in a teenager's life is the parent. Yet, the person who hesitates the most to talk to their teenagers is the parent.
Check out this link for how YOU, the parent, can begin to influence your teenager's life. You may save your child's life.
The Partnership for a Drug-Free America also reports that, "Every day, 2,500 teens use a prescription drug to get high for the first time. 12 to 17 year olds abuse prescription drugs more than they abuse ecstasy, crack/cocaine, heroin and methamphetamine combined! Only 1 in 3 report learning about the risks of prescription drugs from their parents."
Are those reports discouraging? They should be. The deadliest form of substance absue is occurring in the very homes of teenagers.
However, there is HOPE. Over and over again, studies are showing that the most influential person in a teenager's life is the parent. Yet, the person who hesitates the most to talk to their teenagers is the parent.
Check out this link for how YOU, the parent, can begin to influence your teenager's life. You may save your child's life.
Wednesday, March 24, 2010
Your Faith has Healed You
Written by Greg Brooks, Executive Director:
Mark 10:48-52
48Many rebuked him and told him to be quiet, but he shouted all the more, "Son of David, have mercy on me!" 49Jesus stopped and said, "Call him." So they called to the blind man, "Cheer up! On your feet! He's calling you." 50Throwing his cloak aside, he jumped to his feet and came to Jesus. 51"What do you want me to do for you?" Jesus asked him. The blind man said, "Rabbi, I want to see." 52"Go," said Jesus, "your faith has healed you." Immediately he received his sight and followed Jesus along the road.
As you pursue your life’s miracle you’ll be faced with the challenge of overcoming the opinion of people. You will be rebuked by many because they don’t understand where you’ve been or where you know God is taking you. They don’t know the nights you’ve spent praying and fasting for the ability to see the light at the end of your tunnel. The opinions of people will always be there but your problem won’t.
Obliviously, Jesus had the power to heal him on the spot but he didn’t. Why? I believe that Jesus was giving Bartimaeus the opportunity to convey his faith. Is Jesus waiting on you to convey your faith? Is He waiting on you to throw off your cloak, jump to your feet and come to Him? Bartimaues was blind but he chose to walk in the dark because he heard the voice of Jesus calling him. You may need the kind of faith that moves when He calls although you may not be able to see Him. He just needs you to walk toward Him.
"When you are vague you have the advantage of feeling like you are making progress, but with none of the liabilities of a specific promise." – Andy Stanley, Choosing to Cheat
Bartimaeus didn’t ask Jesus for a general “blessing” like we so often do. He asked Jesus for a specific miracle which put Jesus on the spot. Is our faith at the place where we can ask Jesus for something specific and expect Him to come through? If not, why? Start asking Him for specific miracles and see how He’ll show up in unprecedented ways.
Mark 10:48-52
48Many rebuked him and told him to be quiet, but he shouted all the more, "Son of David, have mercy on me!" 49Jesus stopped and said, "Call him." So they called to the blind man, "Cheer up! On your feet! He's calling you." 50Throwing his cloak aside, he jumped to his feet and came to Jesus. 51"What do you want me to do for you?" Jesus asked him. The blind man said, "Rabbi, I want to see." 52"Go," said Jesus, "your faith has healed you." Immediately he received his sight and followed Jesus along the road.
As you pursue your life’s miracle you’ll be faced with the challenge of overcoming the opinion of people. You will be rebuked by many because they don’t understand where you’ve been or where you know God is taking you. They don’t know the nights you’ve spent praying and fasting for the ability to see the light at the end of your tunnel. The opinions of people will always be there but your problem won’t.
Obliviously, Jesus had the power to heal him on the spot but he didn’t. Why? I believe that Jesus was giving Bartimaeus the opportunity to convey his faith. Is Jesus waiting on you to convey your faith? Is He waiting on you to throw off your cloak, jump to your feet and come to Him? Bartimaues was blind but he chose to walk in the dark because he heard the voice of Jesus calling him. You may need the kind of faith that moves when He calls although you may not be able to see Him. He just needs you to walk toward Him.
"When you are vague you have the advantage of feeling like you are making progress, but with none of the liabilities of a specific promise." – Andy Stanley, Choosing to Cheat
Bartimaeus didn’t ask Jesus for a general “blessing” like we so often do. He asked Jesus for a specific miracle which put Jesus on the spot. Is our faith at the place where we can ask Jesus for something specific and expect Him to come through? If not, why? Start asking Him for specific miracles and see how He’ll show up in unprecedented ways.
Thursday, March 18, 2010
12 Days and Thankful Thursday.
I recently heard the story of a man who had decided to stop doing drugs and other addictive behaviors. Cold turkey. One day, someone asked how he was doing and how long it had been since he stopped, he replied "12 days". Several months later, the same person ask the man how long it had been since he had stopped, again the man replied, "12 days". Noticing that the man had replied the same way, the person asked why the man said 12 days. The man replied, "Because I never want to get to a point where I think, I've got it. Because I know when I do, I will fall. I keep saying 12 days, so, that I believe I've only begun."
There is a lot of truth in that comment. For 3 Dimensional Life students, it is vital that they never think they have arrived. Instead, they need to consider they are a work in progress.
Thankful Thursdays:
1. WARMER WEATHER!
2. Opportunities for Fathers and Sons to re-connect.
3. Grace - none of us deserve it, but we all need it.
There is a lot of truth in that comment. For 3 Dimensional Life students, it is vital that they never think they have arrived. Instead, they need to consider they are a work in progress.
Thankful Thursdays:
1. WARMER WEATHER!
2. Opportunities for Fathers and Sons to re-connect.
3. Grace - none of us deserve it, but we all need it.
Monday, March 15, 2010
The Importance of the Active Father
This upcoming weekend, 3 Dimensional Life will host its FIRST ever Father/Son Retreat, entitled "Well Done".
Consider the following quotes from this article:
Dr Herbert Gayle, an anthropologist of social violence, took a similar view.
"A father has four roles -- provider, protector, role model and emotional supplement to the family. Think about a father who has infant children and the state forcefully removes this parent, you understand the tremendous impact of him not performing his roles," he said. "When you remove a father who is the minister of security for his family, you create physical insecurity in his child and one of the results of that is violence."
Added Gayle: "The father is crucial. When you pull a man from a family, if the mother has a headache she doesn't have anyone to lean on. When the father is absent and abused and treated as though he is marginal, then the boy begins to see himself as marginal. Girls need to see their fathers act as a caring and loving person in order to trust the opposite sex."
When Dr. Gayle began to discuss the importance of a father, he highlighted four different roles: provider, protector, role model and emotional supplement to the family. That is a mighty tall order and really pushes how vital a father is to the family.
Let's connect those roles to examples:
Provider - "He makes the case that one aspect of a father providing for his sons involves training them to provide for their own family some day. In this day and age, the role of career training has shifted from fathers to schools (trade schools, colleges, etc.). He suggests that fathers begin taking the responsibility for instilling these skills in their sons." source.
Protector - Dr. Gayle notes, "When you remove a father who is the minister of security for his family, you create physical insecurity in his child and one of the results of that is violence."
Role Model - Dr. Gayle says, "When the father [sees himself' as] marginal, then the boy begins to see himself as marginal. Girls need to see their fathers act as a caring and loving person in order to trust the opposite sex."
Emotional Supplement for the Family: Dr. Gayle makes this comment: " [When a father is gone, the mother] doesn't have anyone to lean on....boy begins to see himself as marginal....girls need to see their fathers act as a caring and loving person in order to trust."
For someone to say that a father is not a vital aspect to the family, that is a sadly mistaken assumption. That is why this weekend is so important for our students and their fathers. While our students move toward adopting a lifestyle that is destructive-behavior-free, the fathers have the opportunity to reconnect and build on the relationships with their sons.
Consider the following quotes from this article:
Dr Herbert Gayle, an anthropologist of social violence, took a similar view.
"A father has four roles -- provider, protector, role model and emotional supplement to the family. Think about a father who has infant children and the state forcefully removes this parent, you understand the tremendous impact of him not performing his roles," he said. "When you remove a father who is the minister of security for his family, you create physical insecurity in his child and one of the results of that is violence."
Added Gayle: "The father is crucial. When you pull a man from a family, if the mother has a headache she doesn't have anyone to lean on. When the father is absent and abused and treated as though he is marginal, then the boy begins to see himself as marginal. Girls need to see their fathers act as a caring and loving person in order to trust the opposite sex."
When Dr. Gayle began to discuss the importance of a father, he highlighted four different roles: provider, protector, role model and emotional supplement to the family. That is a mighty tall order and really pushes how vital a father is to the family.
Let's connect those roles to examples:
Provider - "He makes the case that one aspect of a father providing for his sons involves training them to provide for their own family some day. In this day and age, the role of career training has shifted from fathers to schools (trade schools, colleges, etc.). He suggests that fathers begin taking the responsibility for instilling these skills in their sons." source.
Protector - Dr. Gayle notes, "When you remove a father who is the minister of security for his family, you create physical insecurity in his child and one of the results of that is violence."
Role Model - Dr. Gayle says, "When the father [sees himself' as] marginal, then the boy begins to see himself as marginal. Girls need to see their fathers act as a caring and loving person in order to trust the opposite sex."
Emotional Supplement for the Family: Dr. Gayle makes this comment: " [When a father is gone, the mother] doesn't have anyone to lean on....boy begins to see himself as marginal....girls need to see their fathers act as a caring and loving person in order to trust."
For someone to say that a father is not a vital aspect to the family, that is a sadly mistaken assumption. That is why this weekend is so important for our students and their fathers. While our students move toward adopting a lifestyle that is destructive-behavior-free, the fathers have the opportunity to reconnect and build on the relationships with their sons.
Thursday, March 11, 2010
Thankful Thursdays
Here is this week's addition of thankfulness expressed:
1. Opportunities for growth: a lot of times, our students are given tasks to help them grow, to give them time to reflect. It's not always easy, but it is always beneficial.
2. Staff: I've mentioned many times what a blessing it is to have the staff team that we have - allow me to mention it again! We have a great team.
3. Board of Directors: We have an incredibly active BOD. Its amazing, really. Every week, one or more board members will be on property. And, that does not even include the constant contact they maintain with our Executive Director. There is progression in unity.
4. Rain: Some people struggle with the downpour of rain, but rain serves as a great reminder of God's faithfulness.
5. The future: The future is bright and full of promise. This is not limited to just 3 Dimensional Life, but extends to the student, his family, and beyond. When a student chooses to live a better life than the one they have been living previously, they cannot even begin to imagine what it looks like and means to live out a life that GLORIFIES the LORD.
1. Opportunities for growth: a lot of times, our students are given tasks to help them grow, to give them time to reflect. It's not always easy, but it is always beneficial.
2. Staff: I've mentioned many times what a blessing it is to have the staff team that we have - allow me to mention it again! We have a great team.
3. Board of Directors: We have an incredibly active BOD. Its amazing, really. Every week, one or more board members will be on property. And, that does not even include the constant contact they maintain with our Executive Director. There is progression in unity.
4. Rain: Some people struggle with the downpour of rain, but rain serves as a great reminder of God's faithfulness.
5. The future: The future is bright and full of promise. This is not limited to just 3 Dimensional Life, but extends to the student, his family, and beyond. When a student chooses to live a better life than the one they have been living previously, they cannot even begin to imagine what it looks like and means to live out a life that GLORIFIES the LORD.
Tuesday, March 9, 2010
Because He Lives...I can Face Tomorrow
Our Executive Director Greg Brooks wrote this; it is extremely encouraging and challenging.
“Unless you accept God's kingdom in the simplicity of a child, you'll never get in.” Luke 18:17 (The Message)
I have often asked my four year son, Noah, the question: “What’s the most important thing to you?” His answer is always the same no matter what’s going on. He says, “Daddy, the most important thing is that Jesus loves me.” He doesn’t say the things many of us would say; the mortgage this month, my son’s recovery, my job.
It doesn’t matter what you’re going through this week; our answer should be the same. The MOST important thing is that Jesus loves you. At the end of the day nothing else matters. When we can understand this child-like statement is when we can live free from fear, anxiety, concern and anything else that distracts us from focusing on Him.
There’s an old hymn that says “Because He Lives I can Face Tomorrow.” Life is much easier to live when we’re submitted to loving Jesus and nothing else.
It doesn’t matter what you’re going through this week; our answer should be the same. The MOST important thing is that Jesus loves you. At the end of the day nothing else matters. When we can understand this child-like statement is when we can live free from fear, anxiety, concern and anything else that distracts us from focusing on Him.
There’s an old hymn that says “Because He Lives I can Face Tomorrow.” Life is much easier to live when we’re submitted to loving Jesus and nothing else.
Friday, March 5, 2010
Changing Diets
There is a constant, steady stream of re-evaluation taking place at 3 Dimensional Life. For the staff members, looking for areas of improvement, adjustment and more are vital to our improvement and desire of excellence.
One way that this has taken place recently is restructuring the students' diet. By changing what the students eat, we are working towards emphasizing better and healthier choices. We've done this in several ways:
1 - Limiting the amount of sugar and caffeine the students get a day.
2 - Implementing more fresh vegetables and fruits.
3 - Widening the variety of protein from just pork and beef to chicken, fish and beef.
4 - Serving pasta, chili, etc.
5 - Making sure breakfast items provide a combined and excellent source of fiber and protein.
6 - Making sure that the snack items do the same as the breakfast items.
A vital aspect of the 3 Dimensional Life is learning how to take care of your body. The students already do this by daily exercising, now that is extended to healthy eating and portion control. We are just in the first weeks of this change, but implementing a healthy diet change is always a good thing!
One way that this has taken place recently is restructuring the students' diet. By changing what the students eat, we are working towards emphasizing better and healthier choices. We've done this in several ways:
1 - Limiting the amount of sugar and caffeine the students get a day.
2 - Implementing more fresh vegetables and fruits.
3 - Widening the variety of protein from just pork and beef to chicken, fish and beef.
4 - Serving pasta, chili, etc.
5 - Making sure breakfast items provide a combined and excellent source of fiber and protein.
6 - Making sure that the snack items do the same as the breakfast items.
A vital aspect of the 3 Dimensional Life is learning how to take care of your body. The students already do this by daily exercising, now that is extended to healthy eating and portion control. We are just in the first weeks of this change, but implementing a healthy diet change is always a good thing!
Monday, March 1, 2010
An Update
Good Afternoon! It is such a welcomed relief to see the sun out and actually feel the warm rays. Over the last couple of days, I have been uploading videos to our facebook page. Be sure to check them out! (For some reason I am having difficulty uploading them to the blog!)
It has been really encouraging to see the involvement of parents. It is easy to take a backseat stance while the student is in the program. But, lately, we are seeing parents pursue harder after their own Family Recovery. We are also seeing families of graduates contact us. I think this is another great aspect, because it shows that parents know they have a trusted source in our staff.
Yesterday, one out-of-state Mom got to stay longer to visit with her son. She made dinner for entire house. It was incredible to watch the boys thoroughly enjoy the meal she cooked. As I stood watching the students get their plates, I noticed one student who tapped the Mom on the shoulder. Before he would take his plate, he said "thanks" and gave her a big hug. I love those moments.
Cherish those 'little' moments. And, enjoy the videos!
It has been really encouraging to see the involvement of parents. It is easy to take a backseat stance while the student is in the program. But, lately, we are seeing parents pursue harder after their own Family Recovery. We are also seeing families of graduates contact us. I think this is another great aspect, because it shows that parents know they have a trusted source in our staff.
Yesterday, one out-of-state Mom got to stay longer to visit with her son. She made dinner for entire house. It was incredible to watch the boys thoroughly enjoy the meal she cooked. As I stood watching the students get their plates, I noticed one student who tapped the Mom on the shoulder. Before he would take his plate, he said "thanks" and gave her a big hug. I love those moments.
Cherish those 'little' moments. And, enjoy the videos!
Monday, February 22, 2010
Family Recovery
"This is the way God meant my son to be."
Yesterday, in Family Recovery, the above comment was made by a mother who still attends Family Recovery and whose son is a 3D intern.
For so many reasons, I loved the truth behind that statement. It spoke of health and continued healing. It spoke of a family who had been restored. It spoke of peace in the home. It spoke of love that dissolved and replaced hate. It spoke of Family Recovery.
Later, I heard this comment:
"We are coming to Family Recovery because we need the healing."
3 Dimensional Life isn't just about a student acknowledging their pain that drove them to drugs, alcohol, or whatever it may be. It is about the entire family healing together. Because if there isn't a healthy home to return to, how much harder is it for a student to carry out long-term sobriety?
I'm praying that the day comes when all the present and future families of 3D students can look at their son and say, "This is the son God meant for me to have. This is the healing we received as a family."
Yesterday, in Family Recovery, the above comment was made by a mother who still attends Family Recovery and whose son is a 3D intern.
For so many reasons, I loved the truth behind that statement. It spoke of health and continued healing. It spoke of a family who had been restored. It spoke of peace in the home. It spoke of love that dissolved and replaced hate. It spoke of Family Recovery.
Later, I heard this comment:
"We are coming to Family Recovery because we need the healing."
3 Dimensional Life isn't just about a student acknowledging their pain that drove them to drugs, alcohol, or whatever it may be. It is about the entire family healing together. Because if there isn't a healthy home to return to, how much harder is it for a student to carry out long-term sobriety?
I'm praying that the day comes when all the present and future families of 3D students can look at their son and say, "This is the son God meant for me to have. This is the healing we received as a family."
Thursday, February 18, 2010
Thankful Thursdays
This week, I asked our staff what they are thankful for in regards to 3 Dimensional Life. Here are their responses:
1. Purpose
2. God's favor
3. A feeling of home
4. Courage
5. 3D Family (board, staff, interns, students, and their families)
1. Purpose
2. God's favor
3. A feeling of home
4. Courage
5. 3D Family (board, staff, interns, students, and their families)
Wednesday, February 17, 2010
Anthony Hargrove: In His Own Words
Several weeks ago, I told the story of Anthony Hargrove. It was incredibly encouraging to read his story.
Today, with help from an individual from the New Orleans Saints, I can share Anthony Hargrove's video - in his own words. Watch it and be inspired.
Today, with help from an individual from the New Orleans Saints, I can share Anthony Hargrove's video - in his own words. Watch it and be inspired.
Tuesday, February 16, 2010
3D Interns
I remember being in the role as an intern. But, that was in college and I needed it for academic credit. So, while I loved my internship immensely, the underlining goal was to: obtain college credit for graduation. My goal was achieved and I graduated.
However, the definition of intern at 3 Dimensional Life takes on an entirely different standard and definition. 3 Dimensional Life has recently been overwhelmed by interns. Condsidering that we were understaffed in our intern department and that our one intern was overwhelmed for the first 4 months of his internship, we are thankful to be overwhelmed. For our 3D interns, their goal is not to obtain college credit, but to give back. For nine months, our interns (who have all graduated from a recovery program themselves) are investing into our students.
While their daily tasks all vary, the investment remains the same: to give back. It seems simple, but the simplicity of the goal does not undermine the intensity of being an intern. It is hard work.
I think Proverbs 25:4 sums up the intern's role perfectly:
"Remove impurities from the silver and the silversmith can craft a fine chalice."
(The Message)
However, the definition of intern at 3 Dimensional Life takes on an entirely different standard and definition. 3 Dimensional Life has recently been overwhelmed by interns. Condsidering that we were understaffed in our intern department and that our one intern was overwhelmed for the first 4 months of his internship, we are thankful to be overwhelmed. For our 3D interns, their goal is not to obtain college credit, but to give back. For nine months, our interns (who have all graduated from a recovery program themselves) are investing into our students.
While their daily tasks all vary, the investment remains the same: to give back. It seems simple, but the simplicity of the goal does not undermine the intensity of being an intern. It is hard work.
I think Proverbs 25:4 sums up the intern's role perfectly:
"Remove impurities from the silver and the silversmith can craft a fine chalice."
(The Message)
Monday, February 15, 2010
Not One, But Many.
Reading the article in the DelMar Times was startling. When a sheriff says, "This is the first time in 22 years career that I'm scared."
We have a problem.
In the article, the journalist reported that an overwhelming problem along the San Diego, CA and Mexico border is teenagers addicted to Oxycontin - a pain medicine prescribed to cancer patients.
Sadly, it is not just a problem along the US and Mexican border. It is a growing problem all over the United States. Teenagers are stealing prescription drugs from their families, friends, strangers and so many others.
Yesterday, as I sat in Family Recovery, the students were asked what their drug of choice was...over and over again, I noticed there was not one singular drug of choice. This one comment stood out: "I used whatever I could get my hands on."
Pray for our students; pray they do not lose heart to continue on. For our interns, who have graduated from a program, but who now need to give back. Pray for our staff, for encouragement and rest.
Pray for your family.
We have a problem.
In the article, the journalist reported that an overwhelming problem along the San Diego, CA and Mexico border is teenagers addicted to Oxycontin - a pain medicine prescribed to cancer patients.
Sadly, it is not just a problem along the US and Mexican border. It is a growing problem all over the United States. Teenagers are stealing prescription drugs from their families, friends, strangers and so many others.
Yesterday, as I sat in Family Recovery, the students were asked what their drug of choice was...over and over again, I noticed there was not one singular drug of choice. This one comment stood out: "I used whatever I could get my hands on."
Pray for our students; pray they do not lose heart to continue on. For our interns, who have graduated from a program, but who now need to give back. Pray for our staff, for encouragement and rest.
Pray for your family.
Thursday, February 11, 2010
Thankful Thursdays
This week, as I reflect on what I'm thankful for, I find that it is vast and covers many areas.
1. Heat. With the cold weather and harsh winds, it is so nice to walk into a warm office every morning.
2. Second Chances. It is God's grace and mercy alone that gave us all a second chance at life. But, at 3 Dimensional Life, we see young men (and soon young women!) hungry for a second chance at life, too. A life that is free of drugs and alcohol.
3. Taking a Moment to Take it In. Wow, that is a mouthful, isn't it? Lately, things have been so fast paced, changing and improving, that, as a staff, we are getting tired. While we LOVE everything that is happening, there is a lot and it can be difficult to take it in. So, in the meantime we are cherishing the little things: fresh paint in the office. An interview room. A smooth driveway. Daily evidence of how God is moving. Those reminders help us push forward with renewed energy.
4. Hope. This is something that we cling to daily. Parents cling to hope for their son's recovery. Students cling to hope because it takes a lot more courage to stick out a program.
1. Heat. With the cold weather and harsh winds, it is so nice to walk into a warm office every morning.
2. Second Chances. It is God's grace and mercy alone that gave us all a second chance at life. But, at 3 Dimensional Life, we see young men (and soon young women!) hungry for a second chance at life, too. A life that is free of drugs and alcohol.
3. Taking a Moment to Take it In. Wow, that is a mouthful, isn't it? Lately, things have been so fast paced, changing and improving, that, as a staff, we are getting tired. While we LOVE everything that is happening, there is a lot and it can be difficult to take it in. So, in the meantime we are cherishing the little things: fresh paint in the office. An interview room. A smooth driveway. Daily evidence of how God is moving. Those reminders help us push forward with renewed energy.
4. Hope. This is something that we cling to daily. Parents cling to hope for their son's recovery. Students cling to hope because it takes a lot more courage to stick out a program.
Wednesday, February 10, 2010
February Highlights
As a staff, we knew 2010 was going to be an incredible year for 3 Dimensional Life. Barely two months into this year,we have seen great changes, improvements and more come to 3 Dimensional Life which only confirms what we had anticipated. We are thrilled!
Here are the February highlights:
1. We have TWITTER! Follow us and tell your fellow tweets!
2. Direct your friends, family, bank tellers, college professors and hair stylists to our facebook page: http://www.facebook.com/3DimensionalLife
3. Brand New Office - check out this video!
4. Brand New Paved Driveway - here is the finished product!
Here are the February highlights:
1. We have TWITTER! Follow us and tell your fellow tweets!
2. Direct your friends, family, bank tellers, college professors and hair stylists to our facebook page: http://www.facebook.com/3DimensionalLife
3. Brand New Office - check out this video!
4. Brand New Paved Driveway - here is the finished product!
Monday, February 8, 2010
Leaving a Legacy
After reading The Five People You Meet In Heaven, I have begun to ponder what it means to leave a legacy.
Every day, we all influence people. Good or bad, our influence is imprinted upon someone's life. That can be an overwhelming thing to consider. Especially, since our influence may be so subtle, we don't even realize that we've made an impact.
That being said, consider the story of James "Friday" Richards. This is a Marietta, GA football coach who is passionate about football, but even more passionate about helping kids.
I like his story because as you learn about this quiet man, you also learn about the many times he invited teenagers into live with him and his wife. Because of his and his wife's decision to open up their home, lives were changed. Over and over again.
We are praying that as 3 Dimensional Life students learn how to adopt a destructive behavior lifestyle, that the course of their life will be changed and in turn will influence positive change in the course of others' lives too.
Every day, we all influence people. Good or bad, our influence is imprinted upon someone's life. That can be an overwhelming thing to consider. Especially, since our influence may be so subtle, we don't even realize that we've made an impact.
That being said, consider the story of James "Friday" Richards. This is a Marietta, GA football coach who is passionate about football, but even more passionate about helping kids.
I like his story because as you learn about this quiet man, you also learn about the many times he invited teenagers into live with him and his wife. Because of his and his wife's decision to open up their home, lives were changed. Over and over again.
We are praying that as 3 Dimensional Life students learn how to adopt a destructive behavior lifestyle, that the course of their life will be changed and in turn will influence positive change in the course of others' lives too.
Friday, February 5, 2010
A Drug Overdose Funeral
It is with great sensitivity that I write this.
In September 2009, the USA Today reported that an estimated 26,000 deaths occur each year to drug overdoses.
That is a lot of parents, children, grandparents, brothers, sisters, friends and so many others that will grieve the loss of a loved one.
Today, 3 Dimensional Life staff and students will be attending a funeral of a young man who overdosed just last weekend.. Life is so valuable, but to the drug addict, you feel invincible. Death seems fleeting and untouchable.
However, today, we will join a family as they grieve their son's death. Today, the USA Today statistic comes to life in the form of death. Today, we are hoping for less drug overdose funerals to attend and more great success stories like Anthony Hargrove.
Be praying for this young man's family today, and also be praying that today's funeral is startling wake-up for the 3D students.
In September 2009, the USA Today reported that an estimated 26,000 deaths occur each year to drug overdoses.
That is a lot of parents, children, grandparents, brothers, sisters, friends and so many others that will grieve the loss of a loved one.
Today, 3 Dimensional Life staff and students will be attending a funeral of a young man who overdosed just last weekend.. Life is so valuable, but to the drug addict, you feel invincible. Death seems fleeting and untouchable.
However, today, we will join a family as they grieve their son's death. Today, the USA Today statistic comes to life in the form of death. Today, we are hoping for less drug overdose funerals to attend and more great success stories like Anthony Hargrove.
Be praying for this young man's family today, and also be praying that today's funeral is startling wake-up for the 3D students.
Thursday, February 4, 2010
Thankful Thursdays
I probably need to do it more. But the times that I do, I'm extremely happy I did. I'm talking about reflecting on thankfulness.
From this point on, Thursdays will be set apart to reflect on what is happening around 3 Dimensional Life that makes us thankful. Its extremely important to not lose sight of what we have, the opportunities we've been given, and what the future holds.
This week, join us in thankfulness for:
1. Students who realize they need help
2. Upcoming Girls Program
3. A GREAT staff (we really do have the best team - EVER!)
4. Paved driveway
5. Opportunities to share the heart, purpose and goal of 3 Dimensional Life - there is LIFE full and free when substance abuse is not present and hope is found in Jesus Christ.
From this point on, Thursdays will be set apart to reflect on what is happening around 3 Dimensional Life that makes us thankful. Its extremely important to not lose sight of what we have, the opportunities we've been given, and what the future holds.
This week, join us in thankfulness for:
1. Students who realize they need help
2. Upcoming Girls Program
3. A GREAT staff (we really do have the best team - EVER!)
4. Paved driveway
5. Opportunities to share the heart, purpose and goal of 3 Dimensional Life - there is LIFE full and free when substance abuse is not present and hope is found in Jesus Christ.
Wednesday, February 3, 2010
New Changes
Today is an extremely exciting day for 3 Dimensional Life! Our driveway is getting paved. Soon the grand-canyon-like ruts will be gone and in its place will be a smooth surface!
I am also thrilled to announce that I have a video to show you the beginning stages of our coming soon easy-on-the-vehicle paradise!
Check out this video:
I am also thrilled to announce that I have a video to show you the beginning stages of our coming soon easy-on-the-vehicle paradise!
Check out this video:
Monday, February 1, 2010
Teenage Girls
Teenager girls are on the rise and its not in a good way.
They are beating boys on the intake of drugs and alcohol consumption; and for a Western country, United States has the highest percentage of teenage pregnancies.
It may go without saying, but teenage girls are in critical condition. We are becoming increasingly aware of the need that teenage girls have. Just this week, we have received two phone calls from individuals who have teenage daughters, nieces, and granddaughters all desperate to get help for them.
In the Spring, we will be opening up the girls program. There are still are several areas of need that must be fulfilled so that we can begin to provide help and hope to girls. Please be praying that doors will be opened as we seek to start this program.
They are beating boys on the intake of drugs and alcohol consumption; and for a Western country, United States has the highest percentage of teenage pregnancies.
It may go without saying, but teenage girls are in critical condition. We are becoming increasingly aware of the need that teenage girls have. Just this week, we have received two phone calls from individuals who have teenage daughters, nieces, and granddaughters all desperate to get help for them.
In the Spring, we will be opening up the girls program. There are still are several areas of need that must be fulfilled so that we can begin to provide help and hope to girls. Please be praying that doors will be opened as we seek to start this program.
Super Bowl and Addictions
I'm so sorry for how quiet this blog was last week. We were in the middle of several huge deadlines; and all set this blog on the back burner. The great news is that our deadlines were met, so we are back to a regular schedule!
This week, we, like many around the nation, are eagerly anticipating the upcoming Super Bowl. There will be a lot of stories that will be revealed concerning the two teams and their players who will face off on Sunday. However, there is one story in particular, that deserves some recognition especially since it parallels so closely to the heart of 3 Dimensional Life. Its the story of New Orleans Saints defensive tackle Anthony Hargrove. Mr. Hargrove recently came out of a 8-month recovery program for his drug addiction. While the story is inspiring enough, Mr. Hargrove makes this pointed statement:
"This is the Super Bowl. I might only have one chance at it. I don't want to come all this way and blow it. My teammates have said I can go out one night and have fun, but I know I can't. The one night I do try to enjoy myself is when something can happen." (emphasis mine)
In the article, Mr. Hargrove clearly explains his understanding of the freedom a life without addictions provides.
So, regardless of who you will be pulling to win this upcoming Sunday, make sure to notice Anthony Hargrove - who provides a great example of successfully completing a recovery program and applying the tools he learned to his life.
This week, we, like many around the nation, are eagerly anticipating the upcoming Super Bowl. There will be a lot of stories that will be revealed concerning the two teams and their players who will face off on Sunday. However, there is one story in particular, that deserves some recognition especially since it parallels so closely to the heart of 3 Dimensional Life. Its the story of New Orleans Saints defensive tackle Anthony Hargrove. Mr. Hargrove recently came out of a 8-month recovery program for his drug addiction. While the story is inspiring enough, Mr. Hargrove makes this pointed statement:
"This is the Super Bowl. I might only have one chance at it. I don't want to come all this way and blow it. My teammates have said I can go out one night and have fun, but I know I can't. The one night I do try to enjoy myself is when something can happen." (emphasis mine)
In the article, Mr. Hargrove clearly explains his understanding of the freedom a life without addictions provides.
So, regardless of who you will be pulling to win this upcoming Sunday, make sure to notice Anthony Hargrove - who provides a great example of successfully completing a recovery program and applying the tools he learned to his life.
Monday, January 25, 2010
Girls Need Hope, Too
It is easy for us to focus on the 3D boys program; you can see their faces and hear their stories - NOW. But, for the 3D girls program, we aren't quite there yet. However, in the midst of praying for property, we received this phone call for the 3D girls program:
"When do you guys start the girls program?"
"This spring."
"I have a niece. She's on drugs and just came out of court." The lady proceeded to tell me that her niece would be in a Youth Dentition Center (YDC) for a month.
Then she said this: "We want to start the application process now, so that when the girls program opens, she can get in."
This comment struck me because the need is great and ever growing. How many girls come out of YDC with no hope for the future or even the day after?
Be praying that the LORD will provide the perfect property at the precise moment, especially so we don't have to keep telling people to wait.
Friday, January 22, 2010
Update: Parental Forum on Substance Abuse
Tuesday and Thursday, 3 Dimensional Life staff and students attended the Parental Forum on Substance Abuse in Hall County. The 3D students, in particular did an outstanding job of explaining the easy access to drugs in public schools and what parents can do.
On Tuesday, there was one comment made that I simply cannot leave un-discussed:
"I don't think you can get drugs on school property."
This comment holds a magnitude of weight illustrating how easy it is to be naive: if school property says "Drug-Free", then you hope the best that is truly what is said. However, here are some statistics to ponder:
About 2/3 of high school students and 1/4 of middles school students say drugs are used, kept or sold on the grounds of their school.
Students who say they attend drug-infected schools are:
On Tuesday, there was one comment made that I simply cannot leave un-discussed:
"I don't think you can get drugs on school property."
This comment holds a magnitude of weight illustrating how easy it is to be naive: if school property says "Drug-Free", then you hope the best that is truly what is said. However, here are some statistics to ponder:
About 2/3 of high school students and 1/4 of middles school students say drugs are used, kept or sold on the grounds of their school.
Students who say they attend drug-infected schools are:
- Almost 3 times likelier to be able to get marijuana in the first hour
- And twice as likely to be able to get prescription drugs in an hour
- 1 out of 5 teens who say drugs are used, kept or sold on the grounds of their schools name school as the place where they could obtain marijuana
(emphasis is mine)
Its one thing to read these statistics. Its an entirely different thing to go a parental forum and discuss the impact of drugs in schools. But it is an extremely eye-opening experience to attend a forum where you can look into the eyes of students who are in regeneration program for drugs or look into the eyes of parents who have lost a child to a drug or alcohol overdose.
3 Dimensional Life received a lot of great feed back from Tuesday night:
"Our [school] counselor went to the parental forum last night and was very impressed with 3D. She said one of the boys spoke also; so glad they went and shared their story/testimony."
"The boys did a great job and the other kids in the audience certainly supported what they were saying."
"John and Riche [the two 3d students who spoke] touched my heart. The personal accountability and and desire for God to be apart of their lives is every parents answered prayer."
3 Dimensional Life has the privilege of helping addicted-students experience a changed and adopted lifestyle transformation. It is our hope that as the need becomes more apparent, that the LORD will open up more opportunities to share about the life-change that is available.
Wednesday, January 20, 2010
Tearing Down a Building
Demolition.
Today, the guys tore down one of the buildings on our property. Beforehand, the Program Director stuck various banners on each window of the building. The banners had one word on each:
Suicide. Weed. Overdose. Jail. Theft.
As the guys helped tear down the building - before the bulldozer took over - they each chose a window that they related to. Then, symbolic of placing their involvement with their selected window, they broke the window, placing the past behind them.
There are pictures on our Facebook page - be sure to check them out!
(my apologies, I am having difficulty uploading the pictures to the blog...)
Today, the guys tore down one of the buildings on our property. Beforehand, the Program Director stuck various banners on each window of the building. The banners had one word on each:
Suicide. Weed. Overdose. Jail. Theft.
As the guys helped tear down the building - before the bulldozer took over - they each chose a window that they related to. Then, symbolic of placing their involvement with their selected window, they broke the window, placing the past behind them.
There are pictures on our Facebook page - be sure to check them out!
(my apologies, I am having difficulty uploading the pictures to the blog...)
Tuesday, January 19, 2010
Parental Forum on Substance Abuse
We have been invited to participate in a parental forum for substance abuse amongst teenagers; it takes place tonight. We are excited because this will provide a further awareness of who we are, as well as the dangers that drugs and alcohol.
This comes at a pivotal time, especially, because I have been researching lately the subject of teenagers, substance abuse and parents. The combined search has proved to be very challenging to find research. I'm not sure what exactly I'm looking for beyond a question of parental involvement (whether overly involved or more hands-off), but I do know I remain curious to the search results.
Upon first glance, it will appear that parents are ignorant. That they honestly have no clue the health risk, the dangers, that substance abuse exposes their child(ren) to. I have a hard time believing this, but there may be more truth to it than what I am aware of. What I did find interesting the warning signs that are always present. In this article I stumbled upon, warning signs are given; I think they parallel nicely to the Top 10 Reasons for Recovery. They both are fascinating to read; mainly because they emphasis again the dire situation of drugs and alcohol.
Tonight, presents an opportunity to raise awareness of hope. Not of behavior modification, but if a lifestyle regeneration. I will be posting pictures and providing an update tomorrow, so stay tune.
This comes at a pivotal time, especially, because I have been researching lately the subject of teenagers, substance abuse and parents. The combined search has proved to be very challenging to find research. I'm not sure what exactly I'm looking for beyond a question of parental involvement (whether overly involved or more hands-off), but I do know I remain curious to the search results.
Upon first glance, it will appear that parents are ignorant. That they honestly have no clue the health risk, the dangers, that substance abuse exposes their child(ren) to. I have a hard time believing this, but there may be more truth to it than what I am aware of. What I did find interesting the warning signs that are always present. In this article I stumbled upon, warning signs are given; I think they parallel nicely to the Top 10 Reasons for Recovery. They both are fascinating to read; mainly because they emphasis again the dire situation of drugs and alcohol.
Tonight, presents an opportunity to raise awareness of hope. Not of behavior modification, but if a lifestyle regeneration. I will be posting pictures and providing an update tomorrow, so stay tune.
Sunday, January 17, 2010
The Impact of Family Dinners
Family Dinners. They were a staple when I was growing up. You did not NOT participate. For literally hours, we would sit around the table and talk, laugh and catch up. Sometimes, the conversation would grow intense as my brothers, sisters and parents loudly proclaimed their opinions on world news, local news, sports, music, movies, theology, jokes, etc. It was all in good fun, but what developed was strong good memories of time spent around the dinner table together as a family.
This isn't an old idea, but apparently it is becoming a good reminder: family dinners prevent substance abuse.
Ponder this quote for a minute:
"More than a decade of research by the Natioanl Center on Addiction and Substance Abuse (CASA) at Columbia University has consistently found that the more often kids eat dinner with their families, the less likely they are to smoke, drink or use drugs." (emphasis is mine)
Of course, there are those exceptions, but still, the message that CASA is presenting is powerful. As parents invest in their child(ren)'s life, spend time with them, having meaningful conversations, the impact is HUGE. Yes, peer pressure is huge; but how much more influential is a parent's involvement?
Do you have a favorite family dinner memory? I do - it's laughing until my sides hurt and remembering that my parents and siblings were laughing just as hard with me.
This isn't an old idea, but apparently it is becoming a good reminder: family dinners prevent substance abuse.
Ponder this quote for a minute:
"More than a decade of research by the Natioanl Center on Addiction and Substance Abuse (CASA) at Columbia University has consistently found that the more often kids eat dinner with their families, the less likely they are to smoke, drink or use drugs." (emphasis is mine)
Of course, there are those exceptions, but still, the message that CASA is presenting is powerful. As parents invest in their child(ren)'s life, spend time with them, having meaningful conversations, the impact is HUGE. Yes, peer pressure is huge; but how much more influential is a parent's involvement?
Do you have a favorite family dinner memory? I do - it's laughing until my sides hurt and remembering that my parents and siblings were laughing just as hard with me.
Friday, January 15, 2010
Rise of Teenage Drug Usage
As a kid, it drove me crazy. Whenever I did anything I wasn't suppose to do or that was harmful to me, my Mom would quote this:
"Sin is such an awful mien,
That to be hated, must be seen,
But seen too often, familiar with face,
First we endure,
Then we pity,
Then embrace."
- Alexander Pope
I didn't always understand everything in that quote, but I definitely got the "first we endure, then we pity, then embrace". According to this statistic , that is exactly what American teenagers are doing in regards to Marijuana. Ponder this quote from the study:
"According to the University of Michigan's annual Monitoring the Future Survey, marijuana used by American adolescents, especially eighth and tenth graders is trending upward for the third year in a row, reversing a decline tracked since 1992.
Two other more worrisome trends were reported in the survey. The age of first time users is dropping, and fewer teenagers believe there are health risks associated with their use of marijuana."
What gives me chills is that more teenagers are using it sooner, and fewer teenagers see the risk. This is huge; as kids embrace drug use as the norm, their sense of danger diminishes. Grades drop, family relationships dissolve, sense of life purpose disappears, and lives are put at risk of death - drug use is dangerous.
"But seen to oft, familiar with face, first we endure, then we pity, then we embrace."
"Sin is such an awful mien,
That to be hated, must be seen,
But seen too often, familiar with face,
First we endure,
Then we pity,
Then embrace."
- Alexander Pope
I didn't always understand everything in that quote, but I definitely got the "first we endure, then we pity, then embrace". According to this statistic , that is exactly what American teenagers are doing in regards to Marijuana. Ponder this quote from the study:
"According to the University of Michigan's annual Monitoring the Future Survey, marijuana used by American adolescents, especially eighth and tenth graders is trending upward for the third year in a row, reversing a decline tracked since 1992.
Two other more worrisome trends were reported in the survey. The age of first time users is dropping, and fewer teenagers believe there are health risks associated with their use of marijuana."
What gives me chills is that more teenagers are using it sooner, and fewer teenagers see the risk. This is huge; as kids embrace drug use as the norm, their sense of danger diminishes. Grades drop, family relationships dissolve, sense of life purpose disappears, and lives are put at risk of death - drug use is dangerous.
"But seen to oft, familiar with face, first we endure, then we pity, then we embrace."
Thursday, January 14, 2010
Life Change
Transformed lives. New life change. Renewed family relationships. Small sentences, yes, but powerful implications.
Yesterday, several staff members met with a new student's family. The mom's eye glistened with tears and hope. Hope for restoration of her son. Hope for peace for her family. Hope for life change.
It is sometimes difficult to put into words how powerful a life change can be for the student who wants it.
I stumbled upon this blog recently; its written by a mom of one of our recent graduates. As I read this Mom's blog, my own eyes swelled up with tears. It provides insight to life 9 months later. 9 months after hope has been restored, peace has found its home, and life change has occurred. Life change when a student wants it; when the entire family steps forward and works together.
Here is a picture of two of our recent graduates, pray they stand strong and work their new life style. Pray they are a beacon in world that needs hope.
Tuesday, January 12, 2010
God brought a tractor
Today has been such a warm day. I even went all morning without my coat! That is a miracle!
For some, the phrase "Kingdom Connections", brings to mind this ministry. But around 3 Dimensional Life, we like to use the phrase (thank you, Pastor Franklin!) as a way to acknowledge the ways the LORD works to bring people to 3 Dimensional Life. I'm not necessarily talking about students, as much as I'm talking about those networking opportunities, those connections, that can only be linked back to the LORD.
It is really fascinating to watch those Kingdom Connections unfold. For instance, just recently we had a man approach us about letting us use his tractor to be used around the property. While we were thankful for the man's thoughtful generosity, it was even more amazing when we realized it was the same exact tractor we had wanted to purchase months before! This week, the man came by with the tractor. As we talked, he mentioned how encouraging 3 Dimensional Life had been for him and how this was a way he could be involved. At a glance, it may seem insignificant to have a tractor. But when you look deeper (or for me, look out the window), I see how the tractor was used by God to bless this man's business, and in turn influence lives for eternity.
For some, the phrase "Kingdom Connections", brings to mind this ministry. But around 3 Dimensional Life, we like to use the phrase (thank you, Pastor Franklin!) as a way to acknowledge the ways the LORD works to bring people to 3 Dimensional Life. I'm not necessarily talking about students, as much as I'm talking about those networking opportunities, those connections, that can only be linked back to the LORD.
It is really fascinating to watch those Kingdom Connections unfold. For instance, just recently we had a man approach us about letting us use his tractor to be used around the property. While we were thankful for the man's thoughtful generosity, it was even more amazing when we realized it was the same exact tractor we had wanted to purchase months before! This week, the man came by with the tractor. As we talked, he mentioned how encouraging 3 Dimensional Life had been for him and how this was a way he could be involved. At a glance, it may seem insignificant to have a tractor. But when you look deeper (or for me, look out the window), I see how the tractor was used by God to bless this man's business, and in turn influence lives for eternity.
Monday, January 11, 2010
3D Family
The 3D family isn't just made up of staff members and students. It extends far beyond that to the students' families.
Each Sunday, we have Family Recovery class. This is a vital opportunity for the students and families to gather together and learn how to heal the wounds in their individual family and walk through recovery together.
Yesterday, I was struck at the uniqueness of 3D Sundays. Families come to see their students, but also, it is a time to get to know other families. Parents who are going through the exact same thing: having a son (soon, daughter!) in a drug and alcohol recovery program. I can only imagine that it must be nice to look across the living room and realize, We aren't alone. That is needed - to know there are others who have walked or are walking through the same or similar situation...
Beyond having that support network with other families, its really neat how students and parents can walk through recovery together. How awesome! What it does is identify that this isn't JUST a student issue, but the addictive behavior has poisoned every aspect of life, but in particular the family.
Next Sunday, be thinking of not only our 3D students, but also their families as they journey to healing together.
Each Sunday, we have Family Recovery class. This is a vital opportunity for the students and families to gather together and learn how to heal the wounds in their individual family and walk through recovery together.
Yesterday, I was struck at the uniqueness of 3D Sundays. Families come to see their students, but also, it is a time to get to know other families. Parents who are going through the exact same thing: having a son (soon, daughter!) in a drug and alcohol recovery program. I can only imagine that it must be nice to look across the living room and realize, We aren't alone. That is needed - to know there are others who have walked or are walking through the same or similar situation...
Beyond having that support network with other families, its really neat how students and parents can walk through recovery together. How awesome! What it does is identify that this isn't JUST a student issue, but the addictive behavior has poisoned every aspect of life, but in particular the family.
Next Sunday, be thinking of not only our 3D students, but also their families as they journey to healing together.
Friday, January 8, 2010
Snow Days
A perk of being located on a 54 acre Christmas Tree Farm? SNOW!
Yesterday, we experienced the effects of the recent artic blast. I believe we had about 1 INCH (nothing really, but still...) of it. It was beautiful. I had the opportunity to watch the snow lightly dust the Christmas trees and laughing as the 3D students waited outside the office to attack the intern with snowballs. By late in the evening, everything was covered and appeared clean and breathtaking.
Its fascinating that schools and businesses will close for snow, but 3D doesn't. We can't. The need is too great; our ministry is 24 hours a day and 7 days a week. Which is such a blessing that the ministry staff and interns can continue to pour into the 3D students without the worry of the condition of the weather.
Hope everyone stays warm!
Yesterday, we experienced the effects of the recent artic blast. I believe we had about 1 INCH (nothing really, but still...) of it. It was beautiful. I had the opportunity to watch the snow lightly dust the Christmas trees and laughing as the 3D students waited outside the office to attack the intern with snowballs. By late in the evening, everything was covered and appeared clean and breathtaking.
Its fascinating that schools and businesses will close for snow, but 3D doesn't. We can't. The need is too great; our ministry is 24 hours a day and 7 days a week. Which is such a blessing that the ministry staff and interns can continue to pour into the 3D students without the worry of the condition of the weather.
Hope everyone stays warm!
Thursday, January 7, 2010
Family Night at the Hawks Game
I've collected quite a number of 3D favorites over the past couple of weeks. I define "3D favorites" as those special events or moments that echo my love for 3D.
Of course, I could easily blog about my engagement or wedding - both events that included the 3D students. But, what comes to mind right now is the ATL Hawks game from last night. While I'll be the first to admit - I'm not a fan of the NBA, last night's game was different.
Last night, not only did we take the 3D students, but we also invited their parents. It was really neat to watch as students and parents alike enjoyed a family activity. For several hours, the only distraction was the Hawks Mascot and the only focus was parents and students spending good quality time together. One of the families sat directly behind me and I loved how the student, his dad and brother carried on a continual conversation.
That's what it is about - developing and restoring relationships. I certainly hope the families had a lot of fun. I did.
Of course, I could easily blog about my engagement or wedding - both events that included the 3D students. But, what comes to mind right now is the ATL Hawks game from last night. While I'll be the first to admit - I'm not a fan of the NBA, last night's game was different.
Last night, not only did we take the 3D students, but we also invited their parents. It was really neat to watch as students and parents alike enjoyed a family activity. For several hours, the only distraction was the Hawks Mascot and the only focus was parents and students spending good quality time together. One of the families sat directly behind me and I loved how the student, his dad and brother carried on a continual conversation.
That's what it is about - developing and restoring relationships. I certainly hope the families had a lot of fun. I did.
Wednesday, January 6, 2010
What is Your Funeral Song?
It was a somber conversation as we added up the celebrities. Michael Jackson. Heath Ledger. Brittany Murphy. In one year, three celebrities have died. All cited for cardiac arrest, but all connected to drug overdose.
This morning, while at the gym, the TV flashed a story about Casey Johnson, and when to use tough love with a child (regardless of age) who is an addict. While the story unfolded this chilling question was presented to ask your child: "What song do you want played at your funeral?"
No one wants to consider this. Especially when you are a teenager. You are invincible!
However, listening to that question this morning, really made me think. No, we don't know what tomorrow holds. But, we can make a choice to live a life that has purpose, that has hope, that has promise.
For the students at 3 Dimensional Life, they are rediscovering purpose, hope and understanding all that life has to offer them - drug, alcohol and destructive behavior-free. It is our hope, prayer and focus that teenagers and families alike find 3 Dimensional Life before Mom and Dad's are left wondering, "what song?".
This morning, while at the gym, the TV flashed a story about Casey Johnson, and when to use tough love with a child (regardless of age) who is an addict. While the story unfolded this chilling question was presented to ask your child: "What song do you want played at your funeral?"
No one wants to consider this. Especially when you are a teenager. You are invincible!
However, listening to that question this morning, really made me think. No, we don't know what tomorrow holds. But, we can make a choice to live a life that has purpose, that has hope, that has promise.
For the students at 3 Dimensional Life, they are rediscovering purpose, hope and understanding all that life has to offer them - drug, alcohol and destructive behavior-free. It is our hope, prayer and focus that teenagers and families alike find 3 Dimensional Life before Mom and Dad's are left wondering, "what song?".
Tuesday, January 5, 2010
Never Forget
Its important to never forget why we do what we do. Check out these statistics:
What is fascinating to me is these students are not teenagers living under bridges. These students are in high school - in the band, on the baseball team, attending church, they have brothers and sisters, parents, etc.
Pray for 3Dimensional Life. Pray for the guys at 3D - those in the program now, and those to who will be entering the program. Pray for the Girls 3D - pray for those girls who will be entering in the next couple of months. Pray.
- females aged 12 to 17 (9 percent) were almost as likely as their male peers (10 percent) to report past month illicit drug use
- Among youths aged 12 to 17 in 2000, the rate of current illicit drug use was similar for boys (9.8 percent) and girls (9.5 percent). While boys aged 12 to 17 had a slightly higher rate of marijuana use than girls in the same age category (7.7 percent compared to 6.6 percent), girls were somewhat more likely to use psychotherapeutics nonmedically than boys (3.3 percent compared to 2.7 percent). Between 1999 and 2000, there was no significant change in the rate of current illicit drug use for either males or females aged 12 to 17.
What is fascinating to me is these students are not teenagers living under bridges. These students are in high school - in the band, on the baseball team, attending church, they have brothers and sisters, parents, etc.
Pray for 3Dimensional Life. Pray for the guys at 3D - those in the program now, and those to who will be entering the program. Pray for the Girls 3D - pray for those girls who will be entering in the next couple of months. Pray.
Monday, January 4, 2010
The Look of Sacrifice
He has a huge smile and an even bigger heart. Even though he graduated, he doesn't "officially" complete his program until a couple of weeks. His name is Riche, and if you've ever been around the 3D guys, and not met him, you are missing out. The change that has occurred in his life and in his family's lives is incredible. A change I've seen, not as ministry staff, but as a sideline observer.
Yesterday, Riche began to share about why he made the decision to become an intern. He said, "I kept looking at different options of what I wanted to do. I soon realized everything I was considering started with "I" - what I wanted to do."
Riche said that when he took a moment to consider what God wanted him to do, he went back to the driving force of his entire program: what do I need to do to have long-term sobriety?
At first, when Riche spoke of his driving force, I applauded his focus, then he made this comment: "Regardless of whether or not, someone is an addict, they need to decide what are they willing to sacrifice so that they don't go back to their old habits?" I felt so convicted by that comment.
For Riche, sacrifice means a 9-month internship at 3 Dimensional Life. What does sacrifice look like for us, individually? This is something that has challenged me and I am thinking a lot about: what am I willing to sacrifice for my long-term good?
Be praying for Riche - especially as he finishes his final days as a 3D student and prepares to be a 3D intern.
Yesterday, Riche began to share about why he made the decision to become an intern. He said, "I kept looking at different options of what I wanted to do. I soon realized everything I was considering started with "I" - what I wanted to do."
Riche said that when he took a moment to consider what God wanted him to do, he went back to the driving force of his entire program: what do I need to do to have long-term sobriety?
At first, when Riche spoke of his driving force, I applauded his focus, then he made this comment: "Regardless of whether or not, someone is an addict, they need to decide what are they willing to sacrifice so that they don't go back to their old habits?" I felt so convicted by that comment.
For Riche, sacrifice means a 9-month internship at 3 Dimensional Life. What does sacrifice look like for us, individually? This is something that has challenged me and I am thinking a lot about: what am I willing to sacrifice for my long-term good?
Be praying for Riche - especially as he finishes his final days as a 3D student and prepares to be a 3D intern.
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